Rough Sex Q: Hi Dr. Laurie. I’m 30 and just recently broke up with a partner. I’m single for the first time in 11 years and things have changed a lot since I met my ex. One thing I’ve noticed that seems different to me—maybe … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Learning About New Kinks
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Q&A With Dr. Laurie: A Fetish For Everyone
Trying New Things Q: So, with a previous partner, we had sex that involved hair pulling, choking, and sometimes some open-handed slaps. Long story short, I was really into it, and I want more. I’m not interested in the whole … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: A Fetish For Everyone
Introducing Royal Fetish Radio—A New Podcast on Kinky Sex!
Introducing Royal Fetish Radio, your new source for in-depth discussions and exploration into the world of BDSM, fetish, sex work, and their intersections with culture and politics. This four-part series is hosted by Jet Setting … [Read more...] about Introducing Royal Fetish Radio—A New Podcast on Kinky Sex!
Podcast: Inside The Life Of A Domme
In this podcast episode, Dr. Laurie has a conversation with dominatrix Mistress Catharine. You'll also hear answers to listener-submitted questions and get Dr. Laurie's take on "Sex in the News". … [Read more...] about Podcast: Inside The Life Of A Domme
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: To BDSM Or Not To BDSM
Getting My Partner To Engage In Power Play Q: I’m discovering that I love pain and am getting to orgasm on pain. But I’m in an eight-year vanilla marriage. He’s not interested in giving/receiving pain, so how do I cope with … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: To BDSM Or Not To BDSM
Why So Serious? In Defense Of Occasional, Fun Kink
You know the type. They state it right off the bat, usually in the first line of their online profile: «I am a serious player»; «I am a lifestyle kinkster»; «Looking for a total slave»; «I seek a 24/7, TPE relationship only» … [Read more...] about Why So Serious? In Defense Of Occasional, Fun Kink
Kink Has Rules—Your Own, Mostly
A few weeks ago I read the odd story of a lady who wholeheartedly hated coffee for the first few years in the BDSM scene. She said it was because: “I need my caffeine hit like everyone else, but I had been told that true dominants … [Read more...] about Kink Has Rules—Your Own, Mostly
Disgrace Without Damage: How To Keep Humiliation Play Safe
In the incredibly vast realm of erotic domination and submission fantasies, physical torments generally have much fewer fans than psychological games. In fact, while whips and ropes may be visually spectacular and a wonderful … [Read more...] about Disgrace Without Damage: How To Keep Humiliation Play Safe
Who’s A Good Boy?: The History And Appeal Of Puppy Play
Pet play is an umbrella for lots of different animal role-play, and usually falls into one of three categories: household pets, such as puppies and kittens, livestock animals, such as cows, pigs, and horses, and forest creatures, … [Read more...] about Who’s A Good Boy?: The History And Appeal Of Puppy Play
The Fantasy And Reality Of Cuckolding
Like most kinks, at first glance, cuckolding looks a rather unlikely erotic practice. Why should anyone enjoy watching their partner have sex with someone else, maybe while even explicitly humiliating the official mate? Still, … [Read more...] about The Fantasy And Reality Of Cuckolding
Chastity Play: What Is It, Why Do It, The Tools, The Tricks, And The Risks
As far as sex toys go, it feels pretty bizarre for a best-seller in the category to be all about not allowing pleasure. Still, male chastity cages have been increasingly on demand for the last ten years, with new models popping up … [Read more...] about Chastity Play: What Is It, Why Do It, The Tools, The Tricks, And The Risks
24/7 Kink In The Real World
Despite how it is often portrayed in media, sex is not a competitive sport. How often you have it, with whom, and how, count for nothing, provided that you and your partner are both happy and satisfied. This is also true for … [Read more...] about 24/7 Kink In The Real World